“It's not denial. I'm just selective about the reality I accept.” - Bill Watterson, Creator of Calvin and Hobbes.
A fact is a fact... whether or not you like it. It is about the truth... the real things that happen around you. Either you face it, or drop it... the truth is the truth. You can never run away from the fact.
Denial is something that anyone and everyone is susceptible to. While it won't kill you, it can certainly dampen your day, your job, and your life. Does that sound alarming? But still, some choose to live in denial... rejecting the truth although the fact is straight in front of them. Maybe it is the easiest way out. You can live happily in an imaginary life that you create rather than confronting the fact.
But the question is... for how long? How long do you plan to pretend to live a wonderful life? Joking and fooling around with your friends and family as there are nothing to be worried about? One year, perhaps two... hem, maybe three... possibly four... Is it possible for you to do that?
When you decide to face the truth... no matter how worse it can be, how pain it can cause you, how costly the price to pay... it reflects the strength within you. Only then you are a real man.
Perhaps, I should be one.
4 comments
sian aiju, sokmo dalam dilema. lame dah ya dgr psl ni. sket lagi aiju, this coming june u can decide !!
April 11, 2010 at 4:16 PMAllah berfirman:
April 12, 2010 at 8:56 AM" La YukalifulLahu Nafsan Illa Wis'aha"
maksudnya:
"Allah tak akan membebani seseorang hambanya melainkan dengan apa yg dia mampu menanggungnya"
Sabar la banyak2 Ju, hidup kita mmg dok akan selalu kat atas.... kadang2 kita kat bawah...
PS Kagum aku dgn English mung.... not bad at all. Better than mine.
Abg Din
hahaha... biase jek english aku nih... blaja dengan buku... hehehe.
April 12, 2010 at 11:19 AMAnyway, i'm not as critical as you may think...
we will survive this wave, then we will revive ourselves
ni aki gok la hancus sorg2,haha.
April 13, 2010 at 11:33 AMsemangat abg iju,smgt2!
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